Why Do People With Self-Control Forgive Others Easily? The Role of Rumination and Anger

Fanchang Kong1,2, Haibo Zhang1,2, Haishuo Xia2,3

  • 1Key Laboratory of Adolescent Cyberpsychology and Behavior, Ministry of Education, Wuhan, China.

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