The Parent Role in Advocating for a Deteriorating Child: A Qualitative Study

Families of children with medical complexity are experts on their child's baseline behavior and temperament and may recognize changes in their hospitalized child's health before clinicians. Our objective was to develop a comprehensive understanding of how families identify and communicate their child's deteriorating health with the hospital-based health care team.

In this qualitative study, our multidisciplinary team recruited family members of hospitalized children with neurologic impairment. Interviews, conducted in the hospital, were audio recorded, deidentified, and transcribed. By using inductive thematic analysis, each transcript was independently coded by 3 or 4 team members. Members met regularly to reach consensus on coding decisions. Patterns observed were organized into themes and subthemes.

Participants included 28 family members of 26 hospitalized children 9 months to 17 years of age. Children had a mean of 9 hospitalizations in the previous 3 years. Analysis resulted in 6 themes. First, families often reported their child "writes his own book," meaning the child's illness narrative rarely conformed to textbooks. Second, families developed informal, learned pathways to navigate the inpatient system. Third, families stressed the importance of advocacy. Fourth, families self-identified as "not your typical parents" and discussed how they learned their roles as part of the care team. Fifth, medical culture often did not support partnership. Finally, families noted they are often "running on empty" from stress, fear, and lack of sleep.

Families of children with medical complexity employ mature, experience-based pathways to identify deteriorating health. Existing communication structures in the hospital are poorly equipped to incorporate families' expertise.