Parents' responses to their children's performance: A process examination in the United States and China

Jun Wei1, Irene Nga-Lam Sze2, Florrie Fei-Yin Ng2

  • 1Tsinghua University.

Developmental Psychology
|October 29, 2020
PubMed

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