Sexual Obligation and Perceived Stress: A National Longitudinal Study of Older Adults

Objectives: This study examines the relationship between sexual obligation and perceived stress among older adults in the United States.Methods: Using longitudinal data from three waves of the National Social Life, Health, and Aging Project (NSHAP), our sample included 1,477 partnered, sexually-active respondents aged 57 to 85 at the baseline survey. We estimated mixed-effects models to test how feelings of sexual obligation are related to changes in perceived stress score.Results: Sexual obligation was positively associated with perceived stress score. The positive relationship between sexual obligation and perceived stress score became stronger over the study period among older men, although it remained relatively stable among older women. Relationship quality only partially explains this relationship.Conclusions: Feeling more obligated to have sex had a significantly greater effect on older men's perceived level of stress over time than older women's. This association became marginally significant after relationship quality was controlled for, suggesting that relationship quality was a key explanatory factor for the gendered patterns in sexual obligation's linkage to stress. These results highlight the importance of understanding gendered sexuality among aging older adults within the context of their relationship.Clinical Implications: Older adults' feelings of sexual obligation can manifest in their daily stress experience. Clinicians seeking to lower older adults', in particular older men's, stress levels should address the context of their sexual life and if they feel obligated to have sex, along with the positive and negative aspects of their relationship, as these could elevate their stress levels over time.