The role of acceptance in parents whose child suffers from cancer

Parents are the main caregivers when there is a child diagnosed with cancer. Receiving a diagnosis of childhood cancer is a stressful experience. The objective of this study is to explore the mediating role of emotional avoidance and acceptance in the emotional adjustment of parents throughout the disease.

Using the qualitative methodology Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis (IPA), parent's experiences of having a child with a diagnosis of cancer were explicated. Participants (n = 10) took part in one-on-one semi-structured interviews.

Acceptance serves to cope with paediatric cancer because parents live day by day, actively taking care of their children. Acceptance and emotional avoidance with oneself, with the sick child and with the others play a key role in emotional adjustment. Differences between acceptance and avoidance were considered.

Three main themes emerged from the analyses. Parents' ability to overcome their emotional struggle provides a non-pathological view of the experience of a child's illness. The results also showed the possibility for parents to access new ways to support their loved ones and to maintain the quality of their relationships. Acceptance has a positive impact on parents' adjustment while avoidance showed a negative effect on parents of children with cancer.