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Motivations for Engaging in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships
Jessica Wood1,2, Carm De Santis3,4, Serge Desmarais5
1Department of Psychology, University of Guelph, Guelph, ON, Canada. jessicawood@sieccan.org.
Archives of Sexual Behavior
|May 15, 2021
Summary
Individuals pursue consensual non-monogamy (CNM) for diverse reasons, including autonomy, values, relationships, sexuality, growth, and pragmatism. These motivations fulfill individual and relational needs, enhancing well-being.
Area of Science:
- Psychology
- Sociology
- Relationship Science
Background:
- Consensual non-monogamy (CNM) offers unique relational benefits.
- Limited research exists on the motivations behind pursuing CNM relationships.
- Self-determination and self-expansion theories offer frameworks for understanding these motives.
Purpose of the Study:
- To explore the diverse motivations individuals report for engaging in consensual non-monogamy (CNM).
- To examine how these motivations link to individual and relational well-being and need fulfillment.
- To challenge stereotypic views of CNM relationships.
Main Methods:
- Qualitative approach using open-ended survey questions.
- Thematic analysis within a critical realist framework.
- Analysis of data from 540 participants currently in CNM partnerships.
Main Results:
- Motivations for CNM were organized into six interconnected themes: autonomy, beliefs/values, relationality, sexuality, growth/expansion, and pragmatism.
- Individuals reported diverse reasons addressing both individual and relational needs.
- Findings contradict negative stereotypes of CNM.
Conclusions:
- Motivations for CNM are multifaceted, encompassing personal growth, autonomy, and relational depth.
- CNM engagement is linked to fulfilling diverse psychological and relational needs.
- Findings can inform therapeutic interventions for relationship negotiation.
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