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Epidemiology of Connectional Silence in specialist serious illness conversations
Cailin J Gramling1, Brigitte N Durieux1, Laurence A Clarfeld2
1University of Vermont, Burlington, VT, USA.
Context:
Human connection can reduce suffering and facilitate meaningful decision-making amid the often terrifying experience of hospitalization for advanced cancer. Some conversational pauses indicate human connection, but we know little about their prevalence, distribution or association with outcomes.
Purpose:
To describe the epidemiology of Connectional Silence during serious illness conversations in advanced cancer.
Methods:
We audio-recorded 226 inpatient palliative care consultations at two academic centers. We identified pauses lasting 2+ seconds and distinguished Connectional Silences from other pauses, sub-categorized as either Invitational (ICS) or Emotional (ECS). We identified treatment decisional status pre-consultation from medical records and post-consultation via clinicians. Patients self-reported quality-of-life before and one day after consultation.
Results:
Among all 6769 two-second silences, we observed 328 (4.8%) ECS and 240 (3.5%) ICS. ECS prevalence was associated with decisions favoring fewer disease-focused treatments (ORadj: 2.12; 95% CI: 1.12, 4.06). Earlier conversational ECS was associated with improved quality-of-life (p = 0.01). ICS prevalence was associated with clinicians' prognosis expectations.
Conclusions:
Connectional Silences during specialist serious illness conversations are associated with decision-making and improved patient quality-of-life. Further work is necessary to evaluate potential causal relationships.
Practice Implications:
Pauses offer important opportunities to advance the science of human connection in serious illness decision-making.
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