The Role of Psychological and Physical Aggression In Relationship Reconciliation.

René M Dailey1, Abigail D Hazlett1, Chelsea Brass-Rosenfield1

  • 1Department of Communication Studies, 12330University of Texas at Austin, Austin, TX, USA.

Summary

Aggression in romantic relationships increases the likelihood of reconciliation after breakups, especially when the aggression was one-sided. This suggests relationship cycling may perpetuate aggressive dynamics.

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