Are You Listening to Me? The Negative Link Between Extraversion and Perceived Listening.

Francis J Flynn1, Hanne Collins2, Julian Zlatev2

  • 1Stanford University, CA, USA.

Summary

Extraverts are perceived as social but not invested in interactions. Their partners view them as worse listeners, possibly due to assumptions about their adaptable self-presentation.

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