Talking with strangers is surprisingly informative

Stav Atir1, Kristina A Wald2, Nicholas Epley2

  • 1Wisconsin School of Business, University of Wisconsin-Madison, Madison, WI 53706.

Summary

People often underestimate how much they can learn from conversations. This underestimation may prevent them from engaging in conversations and acquiring valuable knowledge in daily life.

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