Is the pair bond a human universal? An analytical essay

William Jankowiak1

  • 1University of Nevada, Las Vegas, NV, USA.

International Review of Psychiatry (Abingdon, England)
|April 27, 2023
PubMed
Summary

The human impulse for pair bonding, not sex, drives universal monogamy. While some argue for a hybrid species capable of plural relationships, maintaining sexual monogamy requires ethical commitment and vigilance.

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