Is the pair bond a human universal? An analytical essay
1University of Nevada, Las Vegas, NV, USA.
Summary
The human impulse for pair bonding, not sex, drives universal monogamy. While some argue for a hybrid species capable of plural relationships, maintaining sexual monogamy requires ethical commitment and vigilance.
Area of Science:
- Evolutionary Psychology
- Human Sexuality
- Social Anthropology
Background:
- The universality of the human pair bond is argued to stem from an impulse for dyadic love, not sexual release.
- Recent theories propose humans are a hybrid species capable of shifting between pair bonding and plural partner arrangements.
- Sexual monogamy, while common, is not innate and requires ethical commitment and vigilance.
Purpose of the Study:
- To investigate whether vigilance in sexual fidelity extends to emotional commitment in love.
- To explore the possibility of contentment through simultaneous sexual and emotional unions with multiple partners.
- To examine the claims of "pair bond deniers" who advocate for pluralistic love bonds as a source of fulfillment.
Main Methods:
- Analysis of social and emotional nuances of enduring love bonds.
- Exploration of social and psychological complexities of being in love.
- Discussion of group and individual efforts to establish non-exclusive social bonds.
Main Results:
- The study probes the psychological underpinnings of pair bonding and non-exclusive relationships.
- It examines the social structures and individual experiences within alternative relationship models.
- The research assesses the success of experiments in non-monogamous love.
Conclusions:
- The research provides an assessment of the relative success of social and personal experiments in finding fulfilling love arrangements.
- It sheds light on the underlying human psychology related to pair bonding and alternative relationship structures.
- The study contributes to understanding the complexities of love, commitment, and fulfillment in diverse relationship models.
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