The Mating Psychology of Incels (Involuntary Celibates): Misfortunes, Misperceptions, and Misrepresentations

William Costello1, Vania Rolon2, Andrew G Thomas3

  • 1Department of Individual Differences and Evolutionary Psychology, University of Texas at Austin.

Journal of Sex Research
|September 7, 2023
PubMed
Summary

Involuntary celibates (incels) perceive mating difficulties, often linked to misogyny. This study found incels underestimate women's preferences and overestimate physical traits, suggesting cognitive distortions about mate selection.

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