"I know what you did": Associations between relationship satisfaction and reported and suspected extramarital sex

Mark A Whisman1, Lizette Sanchez1

  • 1Department of Psychology and Neuroscience, University of Colorado Boulder, Boulder, Colorado, USA.

Family Process
|February 4, 2024
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