"Caught between two worlds": Managing identity in bisexual fatherhood

Maisie Matthews1, Susie Bower-Brown2, Susan Imrie3

  • 1Centre for Family Research, Department of Psychology, University of Cambridge.

Summary

This study reveals that bisexual fathers often feel invisible but find ways to integrate their identity with parenting. Their identity work, rather than full "outness," significantly shapes their family life and social interactions.

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