Sexual exchanges explain the association between attachment insecurities and sexual satisfaction in long-term couples

Katherine Péloquin1, E Sandra Byers2, Noémie Beaulieu1

  • 1Department of Psychology, Université de Montréal, Montréal, Canada.

Summary

Attachment insecurities influence sexual satisfaction over time by affecting sexual exchanges. These findings highlight how relationship dynamics, specifically sexual interactions, mediate the link between attachment styles and sexual contentment in long-term partnerships.

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