Sex differences in romantic love: an evolutionary perspective.

Adam Bode1, Severi Luoto2, Phillip S Kavanagh3,4

  • 1Australian Capital Territory, The Australian National University, Canberra, ACT, Australia. adam.bode@anu.edu.au.

Biology of Sex Differences
|February 25, 2025
PubMed
Summary

Males and females experience romantic love differently, with men falling in love more often and faster. Women report higher intensity, commitment, and obsessive thoughts in passionate love.

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