Securely stressed: association between attachment and empathic stress in romantic couples

Mathilde Gallistl1,2, Lydia Handke3, Melanie Kungl4

  • 1Social Stress and Family Health Research Group, Max Planck Institute for Human Cognitive and Brain Sciences, Stephanstr. 1A, 04103, Leipzig, Germany. gallistl@cbs.mpg.de.

Scientific Reports
|September 12, 2025
PubMed
Summary

Securely attached partners show synchronized stress responses, indicating resilience. However, this physiological attunement may pose health risks if a partner experiences frequent or extreme stress.

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