Negotiating Conflict: Affective Behavioral Sequences in Belgian and Japanese Couple Interactions

Anna Schouten1, Nadja Bodner2, Michael Boiger3

  • 1Center for Social and Cultural Psychology, Faculty of Psychology and Educational Sciences, University of Leuven, Tiensestraat 102 - box 3727, Leuven, 3000 Belgium.

Affective Science
|November 4, 2025
PubMed
Summary

Belgian couples show more systematic affective responses during conflict than Japanese couples, reflecting cultural differences in relationship goals and negotiation styles. Both cultures exhibit gendered communication patterns, though Belgian couples display more balanced power dynamics.

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