When Generosity Backfires: Children's Evaluation of Sharing With Negative Social Consequences

Yunjin Qi1, Qiao Chai2, Jie He1,3

  • 1Department of Psychology and Behavioral Sciences, Zhejiang University.

Cognitive Science
|January 21, 2026
PubMed
Summary

Children evaluate generous sharing negatively when it harms a peer's reputation, regardless of friendship. This study explores prosocial behavior and reputation management in children and adults.

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