Happily Ever After? Singles' Expectations of Romantic Relationships Are Associated With Singlehood Satisfaction and...

Although research has examined partnered individuals' expectations about romantic relationships, little is known about singles' expectations for relationships. Using six waves of longitudinal panel data (N = 5,113), we explored how singles' expectations relate to experiences in singlehood and future partnerships. Women expected more intimate and more negative outcomes from relationships than men, whereas men were more likely to expect relationships to enhance their status. At both within- and between-person levels, higher intimacy expectations were associated with lower singlehood satisfaction and higher partner desire; within-person increases in negative expectations were associated with lower satisfaction and partner desire. Individuals with higher intimacy expectations were less likely to remain single and felt more satisfied in future relationships; negative expectations were associated with a greater likelihood of remaining single and lower future relationship satisfaction. Together, our data suggest that singles' image of partnership is related to satisfaction in singlehood and future romantic relationships.