Association Between Self-Perceived Mate Value and Self-Esteem: A Meta-Analysis

Self-perceived mate value (SPMV) is the perceived desirability of the person as a mate. The relationship between SPMV and self-esteem has been reported in many studies, but how much and why these two variables are associated has not been well explored. The present meta-analysis examines the association between self-esteem and SPMV and the potential reasons for its variability. The analysis included 23 records (26 datasets, N = 11,837) published till December 2025. The findings revealed a strong positive association between SPMV and self-esteem (r = 0.512, 95% CI = [0.467, 0.553], p < 0.001). Meta-regression and subgroup analysis revealed that the association between the two variables is strong and consistent across various variables; hence, no significant moderating effect of gender, age, self-esteem measures, or mate value measures is found. These findings are consistent with sociometer theory, which posits that self-esteem functions as a gauge of social acceptance and evolutionary perspectives on mate value. The results suggest that SPMV is a robust correlate of self-esteem across diverse measures and demographic groups, highlighting its relevance in understanding self-worth.