The essential roots of love

Francesca Righetti1, Richard B Slatcher2

  • 1Department of Experimental and Applied Psychology, VU Amsterdam, Amsterdam, Netherlands f.righetti@vu.nl.

Summary

Love arises from evolutionary needs for human connection, not solely the "quest for significance." Attachment and belongingness theories support this, suggesting relationship context matters for understanding love.

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