A cultural lens on romantic dependence

Yukiko Uchida1, Alexander Kirchner-Häusler1

  • 1Kyoto University Institute for the Future of Human Society, Kyoto, Japan uchida.yukiko.6m@kyoto-u.ac.jp kirchnerhausler.alexander.7c@kyoto-u.ac.jp https://ifohs.kyoto-u.ac.jp/en/archives/member/yukiko-uchida https://ifohs.kyoto-u.ac.jp/en/archives/member/alexander-kirchner-hausler.

Summary

Men may depend more on romantic partners, but cultural factors significantly influence relationship dynamics and support-seeking behaviors for both genders. Understanding these sociocultural contexts is key to analyzing relational dependence.

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