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Published on: July 3, 2021
Social connectedness in mobile gaming: how family dynamics shape children's virtual interactions
Lu Pang1,2, Siti Ezaleila Mustafa1, Jiankun Gong1
1Department of Media and Communication Studies, Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences, University of Malaya, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.
Background:
Mobile gaming is important for children's social interaction, but its impact on real-life social connectedness depends heavily on family dynamics. How family patterns shape children's emotional and social experiences around gaming remains underexplored, particularly qualitatively. This study examined how family dynamics influence children's belonging, emotion regulation, and virtual interactions in mobile gaming.
Methods:
Using a phenomenological design, we conducted semi-structured interviews with 20 participants from 10 families across urban, suburban, and rural China. Participants included children (n=10, aged 10-12), parents (n=8, all mothers), and siblings (n=2). All children had played mobile games for ≥6 months. Data were analyzed via thematic analysis (Braun & Clarke). Family patterns were identified based on parental mediation, emotional communication, and children's sense of connectedness.
Results:
Three family patterns emerged. Restrictive-Control Families (4/8) showed high monitoring and low trust, linked to concealment, tension, and social shift to virtual peers. Supportive Co-Play Families (3/8) exhibited shared play, emotional communication, and digital-offline continuity, with children reporting greater resilience and belonging. Sibling-Mediated Families (3 families) featured siblings as companions and emotional buffers, helping manage frustration without direct parental involvement. No severe conflicts or distress were directly caused by gaming in any pattern.
Conclusions:
Children's mobile gaming outcomes are shaped by relational context, not just time. This study identifies three family-level regulatory mechanisms: suppression (restrictive-control), cognitive reappraisal (supportive co-play), and co-regulation (sibling-mediated). These findings extend Social Connectedness Theory, showing how family patterns shape children's emotion regulation. Supportive co-play and sibling mediation facilitate adaptive regulation and connectedness, while restrictive-control may drive children to virtual spaces. Family-based interventions targeting emotion regulation, not just screen reduction, are recommended. Shifting from "anti-addiction" to "developmental enhancement" offers a safe, practical strategy for integrating gaming into family life.
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