'What Is Love?' Exploring Children's Perceptions Through Drawings and Interviews

Fotini Bonoti1, Sofia Kelesidou2, Georgios Vleioras3

  • 1Department of Nutrition and Dietetics, University of Thessaly, Trikala, Greece.

Summary

Children perceive love as an emotional commitment, with understanding evolving with age. Older children express more positive emotions and prosocial behaviors related to love, while girls discuss more themes than boys.

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