The price of rejection: How social feedback influences spending on social experiences

Jordan M Dejoie1, Melanie Ruiz2, Sarah Gallardo1

  • 1Gordon F. Derner School of Psychology, Adelphi University.

Emotion (Washington, D.C.)
|September 10, 2026
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