Recognition and management of the overly affectionate patient

Physicians should be aware that patients who offer excessive admiration, signs of affection, and flattery are exhibiting a form of seductive behavior. To understand and manage this behavior, the physician must recognize his or her susceptibility to the feelings of omnipotence it engenders. Setting realistic expectations, challenging these patients to be less dependent upon the physician, and recognizing the need for referral in certain situations is necessary in managing such patients. A mature physician strives toward developing self-reliance and independence in patients.