Problems in the psychotherapy of children with histories of incest

Therapists must be cognizant of the meaning of the patients' presentation and the extreme need for therapeutic safety. The therapists must be keenly aware of the deprivation issues for these patients and not be seduced by the sexual "red herring." At the same time, the therapist must be careful that his own discomfort does not make him run away from the sexual material. Thus the therapist must strike a difficult balance between the two. The therapist must avoid allying with the child solely as a victim, an alliance which would hinder an understanding of the child's motivation and subsequent guilt, and thus foster further difficulties. The therapist must work through his own outrage that a child has been molested so that he may avoid blame seeking. By attending to these issues, the individual psychotherapist will pass the patients' "test" and take the first step in helping patients and their families in forming a therapeutic working alliance.