Disciplining young children: the role of verbal instructions and reasoning

N J Blum1, G E Williams, P C Friman

  • 1Division of Child Development and Rehabilitation, Children's Seashore House, Philadelphia, PA 19104, USA.

Pediatrics
|August 1, 1995
PubMed

Insights

Verbal explanations and instructions are often ineffective for managing oppositional behaviors in young children. This review explores why these common disciplinary strategies fail and offers alternative recommendations for parents.

Area of Science:

  • Developmental Psychology
  • Behavioral Psychology
  • Pediatrics

Background:

  • Parents frequently seek pediatrician guidance for managing oppositional behaviors in toddlers and preschoolers.
  • Common disciplinary strategies include verbal explanations, reasoning, and instructions, yet their effectiveness is under-researched.
  • Existing literature offers limited direct investigation into how adult verbal strategies impact young children's behavior.

Purpose of the Study:

  • To review studies examining the efficacy of adult verbal explanations and instructions in altering young children's behavior.
  • To explore theoretical underpinnings from developmental and behavioral psychology explaining the limitations of these strategies.
  • To provide evidence-based recommendations for parents on using verbal strategies in child discipline.

Main Methods:

  • Systematic review of empirical studies investigating the direct effects of verbal explanations or instructions on young children's behavior.
  • Analysis of theoretical frameworks in developmental and behavioral psychology relevant to children's response to verbal input.
  • Synthesis of findings to inform practical recommendations for parents.

Main Results:

  • Evidence suggests that verbal explanations and instructions are generally ineffective in modifying problem behaviors in young children.
  • Developmental and behavioral psychology theories highlight cognitive and emotional factors limiting children's responsiveness to verbal reasoning.
  • Current disciplinary approaches may need to incorporate strategies beyond simple verbal directives.

Conclusions:

  • Verbal strategies alone are insufficient for effectively managing oppositional behaviors in young children.
  • Understanding developmental limitations is crucial for selecting appropriate disciplinary techniques.
  • Parents may benefit from alternative or supplementary strategies to verbal explanations and instructions.

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