Perceptions of mothers' and fathers' abusive and supportive behaviors

Young adults' perceptions of parenting behaviors were explored, specifically with regard to the issue of how perceptions may be affected by gender of parent, child, or observer. Ratings of psychologically (emotionally), physically, and sexually abusive behaviors and ratings of love/support, promotion of independence, and positive modeling/fairness were obtained for mothers and fathers as well as daughters and sons. When father was the referent, female subjects rated the behaviors as more emotionally, physically, and sexually abusive than male subjects did. When mother was the referent, gender of subject and gender of child interacted, with female subjects rating the behaviors as more abusive when done to sons than male subjects did. Male and female subjects agreed that behaviors representing love/support and fairness were highly supportive when done by fathers. When done by mothers, female subjects rated love/support behaviors as more supportive for sons than male subjects did. Results indicated that gender of parent, child, and observer may affect young adults' perceptions of parental abusiveness and supportiveness.