To care, not to cure

With a diagnosis "presumed" to be Alzheimer a commitment was made by the family to focus on care; to help Virginia deal with daily living and to help her find as much enjoyment for the rest of her life as possible. As she moved toward increasing dependence over the 16 plus years, her independence and other qualities were protected and nurtured. Virginia was kept stimulated by being integrated into the daily schedule of the primary caregiver while at the same time supporting her special needs. This paper is not intended as a statement against institutionalization but suggests that caregiving can be managed and integrated into the normal routine of life.