Deception in intimate relationships: a comparison of heterosexuals and homosexuals/bisexuals

This study attempted to determine (a) if there is a difference in the degree to which deception occurs in heterosexual versus homosexual/bisexual intimate relationships and (b) if the degree to which homosexuals/bisexuals are open about their sexual orientation affects the degree to which they engage in deceptive behavior with their intimate partners. A group of 41 heterosexual males, 52 heterosexual females, 32 gay and bisexual males, and 34 lesbian and bisexual females completed a survey consisting of three scenarios describing ordinary situations which might arise in an intimate relationship. Findings support the hypothesis that heterosexuals engage in deceptive behavior more than homosexuals/bisexuals. However, the degree of openness about their homosexuality is unrelated to deceptive behavior among homosexuals/bisexuals. The less normative nature of homosexual/bisexual intimate relationships and the degree to which individuals have control over situations and are willing to accept responsibility for their behavior are discussed. It is suggested that future research focus further on these factors as well as on attempting to replicate these findings in non-intimate relationship contexts.