Reinterpreting the empathy-altruism relationship: when one into one equals oneness

R B Cialdini1, S L Brown, B P Lewis

  • 1Department of Psychology, Arizona State University, Tempe 85287-1104, USA. robert.cialdini@asu.edu

Summary

Helping others may not always be selfless. Empathic concern for another person might actually be a form of self-concern, challenging the empathy-altruism model of helping behavior.

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