"I would prefer not to"は,拒絶することや,欠席を"回避"することについてです
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American journal of psychoanalysis
|February 18, 2026
まとめ
この研究は,早期のトラウマ的欠席の心理的影響を調査し,満たされていないニーズを拒絶したり"回避"したりできないことに焦点を当てています. それは自己を強調する.
科学分野:
- 精神分析は精神分析である
- 発達心理学の心理学について
- 臨床心理学の臨床心理学について
背景:
- 幼少期の経験は,自己発達を大きく形作る.
- トラウマによる欠席と満たされていないニーズを"回避"できないことは,深刻な臨床的影響を及ぼします.
- "攻撃者との同一化"や"消去"のような重要な精神分析学的な概念は,これらのプロセスを理解するために重要である.
研究 の 目的:
- 早期のトラウマ的欠席を拒絶し"退避する"という分離した自発的なジェスチャーの運命と臨床的意味合いを探求する.
- 発達する自己に期待され,必要とされる欠席を"退け"ることのパラドックスな不可能を検証する.
- 自己発展のために,拒絶と"反撃"が極めて重要であることを強調する.
主な方法:
- 精神分析理論 (フェレンツィ,ウィンニコット,グリーン) に基づく概念分析.
- ハーマン・メルヴィルの"Bartleby, the Scrivener"の文学的な分析について
- 臨床症例のヴィニエットのイラスト.
主要な成果:
- 自己発達に欠かせない"退却"のジェスチャーは,欠席に対処するときに矛盾的に不可能です.
- 発達初期に"抵抗"を促さないと,壊滅的なトラウマが起こりうる.
- "攻撃者との同一化"と"消去"の概念は,解決されていない欠席の結果を明らかにします.
結論:
- 早期のトラウマ的欠席を"回避"できないことは,自己に重大な長期的な影響を及ぼします.
- 満たされていない欲求の拒絶を容易にすることは,健全な心理的発達にとって不可欠です.
- 臨床的介入は,早期のトラウマ的欠席と"防御"メカニズムの影響に対処する必要があります.
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