倾听和行动的平衡是支持父母育儿的关键
Netta Weinstein1, Jonathan Hill1, Wilbert Law2
1Department of Psychology, University of Reading, United Kingdom.
Current opinion in psychology
|August 18, 2023
概括
高质量的家长倾听包括注意,接受和理解,促进孩子的福祉和未来的披露. 倾听和行动的平衡基于互动的相互作用而发生变化.
科学领域:
- 儿童心理学 儿童心理学
- 发展心理学 发展心理学
- 家庭研究 家庭研究
背景情况:
- 父母倾听对于孩子的发展至关重要,支持亲密,自主和幸福.
- 有效的倾听促进了未来的自我揭露,并加强了亲子关系.
- 了解父母倾听和行动之间的相互作用对于孩子的最佳结果至关重要.
研究的目的:
- 探索高质量的家长倾听的细微差别.
- 检查家长倾听如何与不同交互领域的家长行动平衡.
- 为理论框架提供信息,例如自决理论和感知家长反应能力.
主要方法:
- 这项研究综合了有关家长倾听和行动的现有文献.
- 它提出了模型来概念化倾听和行动之间的动态平衡.
- 这项研究以发展和家庭心理学原则为基础.
主要成果:
- 高质量的家长倾听包括密切关注,接受和理解.
- 倾听优先考虑的互动集中在视角,分享和情感支持 (依恋).
- 在以纪律或安全为重点的背景下,父母的行动可能优先于倾听.
结论:
- 父母倾听是积极儿童发展的基本要素.
- 倾听和行动之间的最佳平衡取决于上下文.
- 这项研究有助于更深入地了解父母的反应能力和自决理论.
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