感谢改变:感恩促进自主动机和成功的合作伙伴监管
Natalie M Sisson1, Yoobin Park2, Nickola C Overall3
1University of Toronto Mississauga, Ontario, Canada.
Personality & social psychology bulletin
|April 29, 2024
概括
对伴侣的努力表示感谢可以改善关系的变化. 这鼓励自主动机,从而在改善关系方面取得更大的成功.
科学领域:
- 社会心理学 社会心理学
- 关系科学科学 关系科学
- 沟通研究 沟通研究
背景情况:
- 关系改善通常涉及合作伙伴试图改变对方的行为.
- 然而,这些对伴侣监管的尝试经常失败,导致关系不满.
研究的目的:
- 调查一个伴侣 (代理人) 所表达的感激是否可以提高另一位伴侣 (目标) 发起的关系改变的成功.
- 检查自主动机在感恩与规范成功之间的关系中的调解作用.
主要方法:
- 该研究采用了多方法方法,包括观察,纵向和实验设计.
- 从四项研究中收集了1400多对夫妇的数据 (N = 每项研究111到725对夫妇).
- 统计分析检查了代理人的感激,目标的自主动机和监管成功之间的联系.
主要成果:
- 代理人对目标努力的感激表达始终与感知到更大的监管成功有关.
- 这种效应是由目标中自主动机的增加所介导的.
- 即使控制其他积极的沟通策略时,感恩对监管成功的积极影响仍然存在.
结论:
- 感恩是促进成功的关系变化和伴侣调节的重要因素.
- 通过感恩来鼓励自主动机可以成为改善关系的关键策略.
- 练习感恩可能是寻求增强关系动态的夫妇的一个有价值的工具.
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