留下或离开:在亲密伴侣暴力后重建夫妇关系的辩证法
Eli Buchbinder1, Hany Asherovich1, Zvi Eisikovits2
1University of Haifa, Israel.
Journal of interpersonal violence
|April 12, 2025
概括
许多夫妇通过呆在一起而不是分开来应对亲密伴侣暴力 (IPV). 这项研究揭示了IPV后关系康复和谈判的三阶段过程,重点是相互改变和新的关系合同.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 社会学 社会学 社会学
- 家庭研究 家庭研究
背景情况:
- 亲密伴侣暴力 (IPV) 话语通常假定关系终止和分离.
- 这种假设受到挑战,因为夫妇选择尽管有IPV,但仍然在一起.
- 了解IPV后一起生活的复杂性对于关系康复至关重要.
研究的目的:
- 检查夫妇对IPV后保持婚姻关系所赋予的意义.
- 探讨夫妇在IPV后恢复关系方面所做的努力.
- 分析决策过程和伴侣在IPV后继续在一起所涉及的各个阶段.
主要方法:
- 对12对夫妇进行的24次深入访谈进行了描述性现象学分析.
- 情侣一直在一起,并且至少一年没有遭受身体暴力.
- 单独的采访允许个人叙述和反思这段关系.
主要成果:
- 确定了三个关键阶段:分居/重新评估,谈判新的关系合同,并恢复同居.
- 这个过程是非线性的,涉及对立力量之间的矛盾和悖论 (例如,恐惧与希望,个性与联系).
- 情侣积极参与个人改变和治疗,以重建婚姻关系.
结论:
- 在IPV之后在一起是一个辩证的过程,需要谈判个人和夫妇的身份.
- 有IPV病史的夫妇一起生活的合法性需要考虑.
- 干预措施应该平衡授权选择与风险评估,以帮助夫妇在IPV后的关系康复中进行导航.
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