父母应该向他们的青少年道歉,以修复他们的父母-青少年关系吗? 一个多方法,多阶段的调查调查
Jean-Michel Robichaud1, Karina Schumann2, Hali Kil3
1École de Psychologie, Université de Moncton, Moncton, New Brunswick, Canada.
概括
父母的道歉显著影响了青少年的关系. 以受害者为中心的道歉促进了更大的宽恕和关系满意度,与防御性的道歉不同.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 发展心理学 发展心理学
- 家庭研究 家庭研究
背景情况:
- 人际道歉被认为可以修复关系.
- 父母道歉对父母和青少年关系的具体影响仍未得到充分研究.
- 父母道歉的措辞可能会导致不同的关系结果.
研究的目的:
- 调查父母感知,编码和操纵的道歉对父母和青少年关系的影响.
- 要区分以受害者为中心与防御性的父母道歉的影响.
- 检查包括青少年宽恕,关系满意度和对父母权威的看法在内的结果.
主要方法:
- 这是一项三阶段研究,涉及288名青少年.
- 第一个阶段:评估父母所感知的道歉.
- 第二阶段和第三阶段:利用编码和操纵的以受害者为中心和防御性的道歉来评估关系效应.
主要成果:
- 以受害者为中心的道歉与青少年宽恕的增加和更高的关系满意度有关.
- 从以受害者为中心的角度表达的道歉促进了更自主,更不受控制的原谅动机.
- 自卫的道歉或不道歉并没有产生类似的积极结果.
- 父母道歉与青少年对父母权威的看法存在很小的关联.
结论:
- 以受害者为中心的父母道歉在修复和加强父母与青少年的关系方面比防御性的道歉更有效.
- 这些发现强调了道歉对青少年人际关系发展和家庭动态的重要性.
- 未来的研究应该探索对父母权威的微妙影响.
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