理性地分手是什么意思
Daniel Villiger1,2, Bouke de Vries3
1Institute of Philosophy, University of Zurich, Zollikerstrasse 117, 8008 Zurich, Switzerland.
概括
结束一个长期的关系是压力. 这项研究为变革性选择提供了一个理性的决策框架,即使在浪漫的分手中也是如此.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 决策理论 决策理论
- 关系科学科学 关系科学
背景情况:
- 长期关系的解散是一个极具压力的生命事件.
- 传统的决策理论与由于不确定的结果而导致的变革性决策作斗争.
- 对于高风险的关系选择,需要合理的指导.
研究的目的:
- 为了证明如何可以做出合理的决定来结束长期的浪漫关系.
- 引入一个新的五级框架,用于变革性决策.
- 整合现有的方法来做出变革性决策.
主要方法:
- 发展一个变革性决策的五级账户.
- 系统地整合了对变革性决策的最新方法.
- 该框架应用于终止长期浪漫关系的决定.
主要成果:
- 介绍了一种在变革性背景下合理决策的方法.
- 该框架适应了关系破裂的潜在改变生活的性质.
- 这种方法提供了一种结构化的方法来导航复杂的,高风险的选择.
结论:
- 理性的决策是可能的,即使对于变革性的选择,如结束长期关系.
- 拟议的五级框架为此类决定提供了一种系统的方法.
- 这个模型可以应用于其他需要仔细考虑的重要生活选择.
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