改变七种关系疼痛的变化
Joaquín Gaete-Silva1,2, Karl Tomm1,2, Inés Sametband3
1University of Calgary, Calgary, Alberta, Canada.
Journal of marital and family therapy
|June 16, 2025
概括
Bringforthist疗法通过关注未实现的家庭关系期望来解决关系疼痛. 它介绍了七个"M"
科学领域:
- 家庭治疗 家庭治疗
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 社会科学 社会科学 社会科学
背景情况:
- 基于干预采访和IPscope框架进行构建.
- 突出了对当地形成的家庭需求的敏感性.
- 介绍了关系偏好和关系痛苦的概念.
研究的目的:
- 详细阐述Bringforthist疗法的应用关系偏好和疼痛.
- 识别和定义七种关系疼痛的变化 (七个"M").
- 提出相应的关系治愈策略 (七个"R").
主要方法:
- 现有治疗框架的概念阐述.
- 区分七种类型的关系疼痛:错误判断,错误调整,错误识别,错误挪用,虐待,不信任和伤害.
- 确定了七种相应的治疗策略:重新评估,重新调整,识别,重新占用,揭示,和解和重新记忆.
主要成果:
- 将关系偏好定义为规范性关系期望 ("应该").
- 定义关系疼痛是关于这些偏好 ("不能") 的未实现的希望.
- 详细介绍了七种特定的关系性疼痛模式及其相应的治疗方法.
结论:
- Bringforthist疗法为理解和解决家庭中关系疼痛提供了一个框架.
- 七个"M"和七个"R"提供了一种结构化的方法来识别疼痛并促进愈合.
- 概述了原型的相互作用模式,以指导治疗干预.
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