应对期望的亲密关系结束的策略:一项探索性研究
Menelaos Apostolou1, Maria Hadjiantoni1, Timo Juhani Lajunen2
1Department of Social Sciences, University of Nicosia, Nicosia, Cyprus.
概括
应对分手需要各种策略. 人们往往会转移焦点,寻求支持,或从社会上撤退. 不太常见的是分离和使用性或物质来管理关系结束.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 社会心理学 社会心理学
- 关系科学科学 关系科学
背景情况:
- 结束亲密关系是一个常见但令人痛苦的生活事件.
- 关系终结带来的情感痛苦需要有效的应对机制.
- 了解各种应对策略对于心理健康至关重要.
研究的目的:
- 调查和分类个人用来应对理想的亲密关系结束的各种策略.
- 找出最常用和最少使用的应对策略.
- 探索人口统计学影响,如性别和年龄,对策略选择.
主要方法:
- 采用混合方法方法来收集全面的数据.
- 确定了84种不同的应对行为,然后将其分为16种特定策略.
- 这些16种策略被进一步分为五种主要应对策略.
主要成果:
- 最常见的主要策略是"将注意力转移到不同的东西上" (例如,专注于自我,保持忙碌).
- 其他经常使用的策略包括"寻求支持" (来自社交网络和专业人士) 和"社会退出" (孤立).
- 最少使用的策略是"性和物质",涉及随意性或物质使用. 还注意到了"脱离和积极的重构",并观察到人口统计学差异.
结论:
- 个人利用一系列策略来应对关系解散,其频率和类型各不相同.
- 转移焦点,寻求社会支持和社会退缩是普遍存在的应对机制.
- 性别和年龄等人口因素显著影响应对策略的选择,凸显了个性化方法的必要性.
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