有你还是没有你? 人们在社交互动中感觉不那么自主,除了与亲密的人
Elaine Hoan1, Geoff MacDonald1, Jessie Sun2
1University of Toronto, Ontario, Canada.
Personality & social psychology bulletin
|October 16, 2025
概括
社交互动可以减少自主权,特别是与非亲密的他人. 然而,浪漫伴侣独特地支持自主和相关性需求,突出了社会联系中的权衡.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 社会心理学 社会心理学
- 福利研究研究 幸福研究
背景情况:
- 社会互动与幸福感和相关性有关.
- 社会互动的成本,例如自主权的减少,人们对其理解较少.
- 自主和相关性是基本的心理需求.
研究的目的:
- 调查在社会互动过程中自主性和相关性之间的潜在权衡.
- 检查不同交互伙伴如何影响自主和相关性的感觉.
- 测试社会互动可能以牺牲个人自主权为代价的假设.
主要方法:
- 利用与大学生参与者 (N = 352) 的经验抽样方法.
- 收集了10,046个关于社会互动,自主,亲属关系和影响的自我报告观察.
- 评估参与者在过去一小时内对他们的社会参与和个人状态的感受.
主要成果:
- 与孤独相比,社交互动与报告的自主性较低有关.
- 这种自主性的减少在那些避免依恋的人群中更为明显.
- 自主程度因互动伙伴而异:与非亲密的其他人相比较低,与朋友/家人相似,与浪漫伴侣相比较高.
结论:
- 有生态有效的证据支持自主关系的权衡,特别是在与非密切的其他人的互动中.
- 与浪漫伴侣的互动独特地满足了自主和关系需求.
- 了解这些权衡对于优化社会联系和心理健康至关重要.
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