考虑一起搬进来吗? 考虑一起搬进来吗? 同居的原因与随着时间的推移关系的结果有关
Claire L Chapman1, Daphne Y Liu1, Scott M Stanley1
1Department of Psychology, University of Denver.
Couple & family psychology
|November 24, 2025
概括
浪漫情侣搬到一起的原因,例如一起度过时间或测试关系,反映了现有的关系质量,而不是影响未来关系运行轨迹.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 社会学 社会学 社会学
- 关系科学科学 关系科学
背景情况:
- 同居是浪漫关系中一个常见的阶段.
- 共同生活的原因在夫妻之间有所不同.
- 关于同居原因对关系结果的长期影响的研究有限.
研究的目的:
- 调查三种共同的共同生活原因 (一起度过时间,测试关系,方便) 与关系的运行和随着时间的推移而解体之间的联系.
- 为了确定是否同居的原因预测了搬进一起后关系质量的变化.
主要方法:
- 一项为期五年的纵向研究 (2007-2012) 调查了485名与异性关系的成年人,他们一起搬进来.
- 参与者报告了在搬进的时间附近同居的原因.
- 在多达11个调查波中评估了关系状况和功能.
主要成果:
- 共同生活在一起度过时间预测了共同生活后更好的关系功能.
- 共同生活来测试关系预测了更糟糕的功能和更高的解体可能性.
- 作为一个原因的便利性并不能预测共同生活后的结果.
- 共同生活的原因并没有影响关系的运行轨迹随着时间的推移,而是反映了最初的关系质量.
结论:
- 同居的原因似乎是预先存在的关系质量的指标,而不是未来关系轨迹的驱动因素.
- 情侣应该讨论他们共同生活的动机,以了解潜在的关系动态.
- 了解一起搬家的动机对于关系的长寿和质量至关重要.
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