伴侣的责任感是否可能参与到不原谅的过程中,在关系过犯之后?
Ece Yilmaz1, Mireille Jean2, Audrey Brassard3
1School of Psychology, Univeristy of Ottawa, Ottawa, Ontario, Canada.
Journal of marital and family therapy
|December 22, 2025
概括
当伴侣感到被理解和响应时,伴侣的不宽恕会减少. 感知到的伴侣反应能力,或缺乏这种反应,在关系过犯后显著影响了不原谅的维度.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 关系科学科学 关系科学
- 社会心理学 社会心理学
背景情况:
- 不原谅是对夫妇之间的关系过犯的常见反应.
- 个人间的因素,如对伴侣的反应,可能会影响不原谅.
- 感知到的伴侣反应和不宽恕之间的具体联系仍然未被充分探索.
研究的目的:
- 为了检查伴侣的感知伴侣反应和不原谅之间的联系.
- 识别可能阻碍在关系过犯后不原谅的过程的因素.
主要方法:
- 从275对夫妇收集的调查数据报告了关系违规行为.
- 自我报告问卷评估了对伴侣的反应和不宽恕的感知.
- 统计分析检查了关键变量之间的关系.
主要成果:
- 感知到伴侣的反应性与所有不宽恕的维度有显著的负面关联.
- 感知到的伴侣不敏感性与不宽恕的所有维度都有显著的积极关联.
结论:
- 感知到伴侣的反应能力在减轻在关系过犯后的不宽恕方面发挥着至关重要的作用.
- 研究结果表明,夫妻治疗的潜在目标是促进宽恕和关系修复.
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