感觉被爱与被爱:感知到的伴侣行为预测了关系满意度,关系满意度
1Institute of Applied Psychology, Faculty of Social and Economic Sciences, Comenius University in Bratislava, Bratislava, Slovakia.
Frontiers in psychology
|March 11, 2026
概括
感觉被你的伴侣所爱对于关系满意度来说比感觉爱自己更重要. 伴侣对吸引力和依恋的看法显著预测了关系的成功,比自我看法更重要.
科学领域:
- 心理学 心理学 心理学
- 临床心理学 临床心理学
- 关系科学科学 关系科学
背景情况:
- 现有的夫妻疗法,如情感集中治疗 (EFT),强调依恋,而其他疗法则结合了吸引力和尊重.
- 一个基本的问题仍然是,感觉被爱对比于爱对关系满意度的相对重要性.
研究的目的:
- 调查是否被爱的感觉预测了比爱的感觉更强烈的关系满意度.
- 为了比较伴侣感知与自我感知对关系满意度的预测能力.
主要方法:
- 一个极端组的设计比较了临床困扰 (CSI < 51.5) 和高度满意的个人 (CSI > 78).
- 五个自我报告指标评估了吸引力,感知到的伴侣/自己的依恋行为,以及感知到的伴侣/自己的尊重.
- 后勤回归分析被用来确定群体成员的独特预测因素.
主要成果:
- 对伴侣行为的感知 (依恋和尊重) 始终比自我感知更强烈地预测了关系满意度.
- 吸引力 (OR = 27.58) 和感知到的伴侣依恋 (OR = 4.46) 独特地预测了群体成员资格,而自我认知措施是无关紧要的.
- 痛苦的个体在吸引力和感觉有价值方面表现出缺陷,而满意的个体在依恋安全和吸引力方面表现出色.
结论:
- 被伴侣所爱的感觉的主观体验对关系满意度的后果比被爱的伴侣的感知更重要.
- 不同的领域 (例如,吸引力,有价值的感觉,依恋安全) 标志着关系的恶化与繁荣.
- 这些发现对评估和干预关系痛苦和满意度具有临床意义.
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