[Communications difficulties during the medical interview]

The aims of medical interview are to obtain diagnostic information, to obtain an empathetic communication with the patient, to educate him about his disease and to establish a personal link allowing a lasting relationship. We analyze some features of communication with patients. Individualized communication, recognizing his identity and personal aspects, "looking from the patient". Context, a shared but not mentioned value, part of the world of emotions and ideas. An analog and digital language, the former precise in words and the latter more diffuse, with gestures, not verbal. Coherence, as the similitude between what we think, feel and say. If there is no coherence, communication is impaired. Emotions, always present, rending communication more valid and real. We need to recognize, express and respond to emotions. An emotionless patient becomes a distant and impersonal object, an "it". When emotions are incorporated the patient is a "him" with whom I share and dialog. Empathy is an emotional comprehension, a personal bond. It improves relationships and creates links. Compassion is a variation of empathy that includes spiritual aspects and values. Negative emotions as rage, frustration and aggression creates communicational difficulties. We must recognize, express and clarify them to improve the situation. Difficult patients with whom communication is difficult such as confuse, agitated, terminal, elder, manipulating or hypochondriac subjects. The idea of transference and counter transference in these complicated situations is analyzed.