The story: a primary spiritual tool. Stories can be a healing power in the dying process

Recounting the events of one's life is therapeutic, particularly if the storyteller has the opportunity to share feelings, as well as factual content. Inherent in each person's story is the key to healing. Sensitive listening and dialogue can help dying persons discover connections between their own stories and those in the Scripture. In addition, when a person is in denial regarding a life-threatening illness, dreams can often provide a means to unlocking the unconscious. As Jesus used images from nature and symbols from everyday life, so, too, can care givers use analogies to get to the heart of the matter. Another source of healing is the original story, which can help a patient and family see their situation in a new light. Humor, used appropriately, can be a redemptive gift. Finally, when unfinished business has been completed and issues of forgiveness resolved, there is little left but to celebrate the life of the dying person. The story can thus be therapeutic, diagnostic, a source of healing, a means of fostering reconciliation, and an occasion for celebration.