High-maintenance interaction: inefficient social coordination impairs self-regulation.

Eli J Finkel1, W Keith Campbell, Amy B Brunell

  • 1Department of Psychology, Northwestern University, Evanston, IL 60208, USA. finkel@northwestern.edu

Summary

Experiencing difficult social interactions, termed high-maintenance interactions, depletes self-regulation. This reduced self-control impacts performance on subsequent tasks, even when the interaction is nonconscious.

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