Why do boys prefer to play with their fathers rather than with their mothers?

Tomomichi Kobayashi1

  • 1Division of Environmental Policy, Faculty of Environment and Information, Tottori University of Environmental Studies Wakabadai 1-1-1, Tottori 689-1111, Japan. t-kobaya@kankyo-u.ac.jp

Journal of Human Ergology
|January 23, 2009
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