Antecedents and consequences of demand/withdraw

Meghan M McGinn1, Pamela T McFarland, Andrew Christensen

  • 1Department of Psychology, University of California, Los Angeles, Los Angeles, CA 90095-1563, USA. mmcginn@ucla.edu

Summary

In relationship conflicts, the demand/withdraw pattern impacts outcomes. This communication style reduces satisfaction and agreement on changes, even if the conflict is resolved.

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